I share something with Hannelore; you get three wipes. I am willing to negotiate that based on what kind of wipes they were. If we're all learning, then fine. Slack will be cut. However, if a DPS prima donna is trying to tell me how to heal, and I'm failing to heal because I'm wearing mobs that DPS should be taking down ... you get no more than three. And if you start bitching before that, two. Then I dump the party and go on my way.